Caring for a loved one with dementia can be both rewarding—and challenging.
In this caregiver guide to dementia, speech-language pathologist and university instructor Alisha Kleindel shares her favorite strategies and resources from 15 years of working with people with dementia and their caregivers.
To make your life even easier, we list all of these resources in the end—with links!
1. Caregiver Guide To Dementia: Educate About Dementia
Educate care partners about dementia and how it may impact communication, cognition, and swallowing, now and in the future. Knowing what changes and deficits to expect can help care partners anticipate challenges and adjust their care.
Recommend websites and offer resources, such as printed handouts or brochures (Zientz et al., 2007). The National Institute on Aging’s What Is Dementia? Symptoms, Types, and Diagnosis, has useful information and advice.
And the National Institute of Healthcare and Excellence offers helpful information about common changes that occur in patients with dementia.
Ask care partners if they have noticed changes in the patient’s ability to complete daily tasks, communicate, or swallow. Help them adjust their care accordingly.
2. Caregiver Communication Strategies For Dementia
Dementia can significantly impact expressive language, language comprehension, and social interaction.
Here are helpful strategies to help care partners better communicate with a person with dementia:
- Give the patient enough time to communicate.
- Use simple, clear language.
- Provide choices and yes/no questions.
- Accept any form of communication.
- Add visual cues as needed, such as written words and pictures.
- Use nonverbal communication, such as gestures.
- Modify the environment to support communication. Reduce distractions and eliminate background noise whenever possible.
- Encourage conversation.
For more communication strategies, see The MESSAGE Communication Strategies In Dementia, developed by The University of Queensland in Australia. It’s an evidence-based communication approach for care partners of patients with dementia. Care partners can also watch the university’s YouTube videos for more guidance.
Another helpful resource for care partners is this downloadable infographic by the National Institute on Aging:
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3. Swallowing Safety & Dysphagia Management for Dementia
As dementia progresses, patients often develop a swallowing disorder. This means that they are at an increased risk of aspiration, dehydration, and malnutrition.
Speech therapy professionals can train care partners in:
- Recognizing the signs of swallowing difficulties.
- Making mealtime shorter and adding more snacks between meals since mealtime may take longer (Seçil et al., 2016).
- Modifying food and liquid textures as needed after speech therapy has completed a swallowing evaluation.
- Utilizing safe feeding and swallowing strategies.
- Promoting a calm, distraction-free environment during meals.
4. Cognitive & Safety Supports For Dementia
Speech therapy can also help care partners keep patients safe during activities of daily living and maintain as much cognitive function as possible (Medical Advisory Secretariat, 2008).
Ways to improve safety and cognition include:
- Have structured routines and consistent daily schedules.
- Environmental modifications, such as better lighting, removing trip hazards, and reducing clutter.
- Visual schedules, such as a large wall calendar.
- Digital memory clocks, such as the Dementia Clock by American Lifetime.
- Cognitive stimulation activities.
- External memory aids such as labeled photos, labeled doors and household items, and written reminders.
5. Encourage Self-Care for Care Partners
Unfortunately, the high demands of caregiving can lead to care partner burnout.
Encourage care partners to prioritize self-care, ask for help, participate in support groups, and take advantage of respite to maintain their well-being. We’ll offer specific suggestions in the sections below.
Read the National Institute on Aging’s Taking Care of Yourself: Tips for Caregivers for more guidance.
6. Dementia Caregivers’ Support Groups
Encourage interested care partners to find local support groups.
Organizations such as the Alzheimer’s Association (www.alz.org) and the Family Caregiver Alliance offer in-person and virtual support groups to connect care partners of people with dementia.
7. Dementia Care Training Programs
Recommend dementia care training programs for interested care partners. Here are some on-line options. You can also search for local, in-person trainings.
- The Alzheimer’s Association’s Dementia Care Training.
- Teepa Snow’s Positive Approach to Care.
- The National Institute on Aging care partner resources.
8. Respite Care Services for Dementia
Respite care offers temporary rest for the care partners of people with dementia. Examples of respite care are local adult day programs and in-home care services.
These programs ensure that the patient with dementia is safe while providing their carers a much-needed break.
Also encourage caregivers to ask for help from family and friends.
Dementia Caregiver Resources & Links
Here are all of the caregiver resources mentioned in this post! Bookmark this page to share with care partners and to use in your practice.
Educate about Dementia
- What Is Dementia? Symptoms, Types, & Diagnosis (NIA)
- Dementia – discussing and planning support after diagnosis (NICE)
Communication and Dementia
- Communication partner tips for dementia
- Environmental modifications for dementia
- MESSAGE communication strategies in dementia (PDF by University of Queensland)
- MESSAGE YouTube Videos
- Infographic: Do’s and Don’ts: Communicating With a Person Who Has Alzheimer’s Disease (NIA)
Dementia and Dysphagia
Dementia and Cognition and Safety
Caregiver Well-Being: Self-Care, Support Groups, and Respite
- Taking Care of Yourself: Tips for Caregivers
- Support Groups (Alzheimer’s Association)
- Support Groups (Family Caregiver Alliance)
Caregiver Training Programs
- Dementia Care Training (Alzheimer’s Association)
- Positive Approach to Care (Teepa Snow)
- Care partner resources (NIA)
Speech Therapy and Dementia Materials
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References
- American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (n.d.). Dementia (Practice Portal). Retrieved March 5, 2025 from www.asha.org/Practice-Portal/Clinical-Topics/Dementia/.
- American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (n.d.). Swallowing Disorders in Adults. Retrieved March 19, 2025 from https://www.asha.org/public/speech/swallowing/Swallowing-Disorders-in-Adults/
- Brewer, C., Aparo, M. (2021) The Adult Speech Therapy Starter Pack. Harmony Road Design Publishing.
- Medical Advisory Secretariat (2008). Caregiver- and patient-directed interventions for dementia: an evidence-based analysis. Ontario health technology assessment series, 8(4), 1–98. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3377513/
- National Institute for Health and Care Excellence. (2018). Dementia: Assessment, management and support for people living with dementia and their carers. Retrieved March, 2025 from https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng97.
- National Institute on Aging. (2025). Infographic: Do’s and Don’ts: Communicating With a Person Who Has Alzheimer’s Disease. Retrieved March, 2025 from https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/alzheimers-changes-behavior-and-communication/dos-and-donts-communicating-person-who-has
- National Institute on Aging. (2023). Taking Care of Yourself: Tips for Caregivers. Retrieved March, 2025 from https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/caregiving/taking-care-yourself-tips-caregivers
- Seçil, Y., Arıcı, Ş., İncesu, T. K., Gürgör, N., Beckmann, Y., & Ertekin, C. (2016). Dysphagia in Alzheimer’s disease. Neurophysiologie clinique = Clinical neurophysiology, 46(3), 171–178. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.neucli.2015.12.007
- Zientz J, Rackley A, Chapman SB, Hopper, T., Mahendra, N., Kim, E.S., & Cleary, S. (2007). Evidence-based practice recommendations for dementia: educating caregivers on Alzheimer’s disease and training communication strategies. Journal of Medical Speech-Language Pathology, 15(1), liii-lxiv. https://www.ancds.org/assets/docs/EBP/educating_caregivers.pdf